It’s ok now. I’ll let you go. Go on and lose yourself in this. Get lost in life. Get lost in who you are and who you want to be. Work everyday you’re here on Earth inching towards that version of you that you have your eyes set on. If you want to be him then do so. Just become him. That version of you isn’t blocked from you like you may think. It’s you, meaning you just have to change the things you do now to get to it. You can’t allow yourself to think that your efforts are going in vain. You can’t fall to that sort of mindset. That mindset removes the responsibility you have with yourself to follow through on the things you tell yourself to do. If you say it do it. If you do it believe in the outcome, but don’t get married to it. If it doesn’t come then be patient and try again. Keep at it until it’s real.
It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the distance between who you are now and who you want to become. Sometimes, it feels like the path is blocked by doubt, fear, or circumstances beyond your control. But the truth is, that version of yourself you dream of is not as far away as you think. It’s already within you. It’s shaped by the choices you make, the habits you build, and the consistency with which you push forward, even when it feels like progress is slow.
The biggest obstacle is often your own mindset. When you start to believe that your efforts are futile, that’s when you begin to falter. Every step you take toward the person you want to be is meaningful, even if you don’t see the immediate results. It’s not about achieving perfection overnight; it’s about showing up every day with the belief that your actions matter. The smallest changes, compounded over time, lead to transformation.
It’s crucial to stay detached from the outcomes. The moment you tie your self-worth or success to immediate results, you set yourself up for disappointment. If things don’t go as planned, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It just means you need to be patient, keep moving, and trust that the process will lead you where you need to go. Effort is never wasted if it’s directed toward growth.
So, lose yourself in the journey. Enjoy the process of becoming. Embrace the small wins and let go of the need for everything to happen at once. The more you focus on taking those consistent, meaningful steps, the closer you’ll get to that version of yourself you’ve been working toward. Keep your faith in the journey, and in time, everything will align.
